Welcome

Hello!  My name is Janice L. Vance, and I am the founder and visionary for “The Marriage Major”. 

I am so glad that you are hear! Take a look around to see all that I have to offer you. I am a Transformational Marriage Coach that inspires married women to “Major in their Marriage”. I inspire married women on how to find renewed love and passion for their husbands, so that they can make their marriage a Great Love Affair.  I believe that marriage is One-derful… Notice that I said One-derful, which means WONDERFUL! Welcome to my page, and I hope that you will find the inspiration, motivation and confidence to make your marriage a great legacy for generations to come. 

All my Engage Ladies, I have something for you to walk you through being a wife before making all those plans for the wedding.

I know you Single Ladies think that everyone forgets about you … not me! I want to walk beside you to help you focus on finding and loving you and being busy about the things of God while waiting on God to send your husband.

With the divorce rate increasing each year, I am passionate about transforming marriages.  I am all about making marriage Life Changing.  I want to inspire married women to become positive role models within their own communities.  Your community could be your children, family, or friends.  There are a lot of marriages that are in need of a tune-up.  These marriages are simply going through the motions, but have NO FIRE. I have always heard that “marriage is 50/50”.  Well, I have learned in the almost thirty-seven years of my marriage that “marriage is 100/100”.  Each person has to give it their all 100 percent.

  When you hold back on your 50 percent and your spouse holds back on their 50 percent… that is when marriage starts lacking.  I have been asked if I regret marrying at such a young age, and I immediately say “No”.  We were two nineteen year old that were blissfully in love, trying to pay bills, and afford groceries.  I am very thankful that there were no ex’s, baby mamas, or baby daddies to cause distraction.  I do know that even with the ex-wife, ex-husband, baby mamas, baby daddies, and blended marriages, any marriage can still be great. Marriage is ordained by God, and it is very important that we keep our vows sacred. 

My greatest desire is to see the divorce rate decrease.  The world we live in today is so confused about marriage.  This is due to the times we live in.  We are living in a society where anything and everything goes.  It is okay for a man to marry a man, and a woman to marry a woman.  Our society has accepted the fact that it is ok to shack up rather than get married.  No one wants to commit; they say marriage is only “papers”.  Well, if that’s all there is to it, then why not get the papers?  I would be remiss if I did not say to single women “Don’t let men cheat you out of a commitment”!

I will be hosting Married Women Conferences that will inspire married women to maximize the potential in their marriage.  These conferences will take your marriage to a new level.  You will learn God’s blueprint for your marriage. As a wife of forty-five years and mother of two children, I know what it’s like to have a lot on your plate each day, and still try to find time for your husband.

I will be retired three years on September 28 from the United States Bankruptcy Court, with thirty years of service. When I retired, my goal was to wake up each morning and decide then what I would do.  I did not want any projects. But how many people know that when God has a divine purpose for you, all you can say is “Yes Lord”?